“Hey there, I have something about me you might find interesting. I am a big fan of romance novels that I can finish reading two of them in a day. I list and masturbate too. It’s usually odd for me to go to bed without having a sex-chat with Boo. I guess you are surprised already but my parents would even be more surprised if they saw some of the kind of chats I have with my girlfriends. But, I am still a virgin and that makes me better than you lbecause you are having pre-marital sex.”


Too much emphasis is being laid on keeping your virginity till marriage and I also strongly believe in abstinence till marriage. At the same time, my Sexual Purity is very important to me as well because what God requires of us is PURITY.

In a world of many voices, many have been led on by the sweetest and melodious voice without considering the aftermath effect of it.

Inasmuch as we are focusing on the physical aspect of purity, let’s not forget to keep renewing and transforming our minds. If you are still thinking that Virginity is the same as Sexual Purity, you need to have a rethink.

Sexual Purity starts from the mind. Have you not read that it is not what comes out of a man that defiles him but what goes in? 

What are the things you have given access to pass through the gates of your mind? 

What you allow past the gates of your hearts (eyes and ears) will affect what stays in your mind. – Chadia Mathurin

The books you read, the music you listen to, the things you see, the association you are in – Are they of any value? Are they of any virtue? Will God be proud of you? 

In this technology age that we are, we come across pornography in every manner and it is up to us to decide what we want to embrace Christ in us. We have the written porns (romance novels), the auditory porn (musics) and even the visual porn. If you have read “Fifty Shades of Grey”, you will have an idea of what I’m talking about.

Purity of the mind is the very first foundation in establishing and maintaining one’s Sexual Purity. But if the foundation itself is faulty, everything else begins to fall apart.

For me, it is Sexual Purity all the way.

What about you?

Mary Talabi

Hello dear friend.

I am Talabi Mary Ayodeji, my friends call me Oluwamary.

To the glory of God, I am a daughter of the Almighty.

I am an Accountant by profession (A Chartered Accountant in the making).

Asides writing and cooking, I love to read amazing stories and articles. Also,
I am a writer and a copywriter.

I have passion for everything about teens and young adults especially. I am a lover of happy Christian marriages.

You will surely find amazing Christian stories, inspirations and poems on my blog.

It’s nice meeting you.

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